Kaz Needs Advice By 6:00 P.M. Tomorrow Before He Does Something He'll Regret

Hi Guys

Long story short,my brother fell "Head Over Heals"with one of his co-workers,only to find out after they went on a date,that she was married.I don't have to tell you how ticked off and hurt her husband was when he found out.My brother and her are saying that they're just friends,but I guarantee you,the husband thinks otherwise.

Last night,a guy called here to threaten my brother to stay away from her or else.originally I though it was the husband that phoned.It turns out that it was a room mate of the "Happy Couple".These two men are fixin' to beat my brother down,and the sad fact is,my brother doesn't see it coming.He just says that he and her are just friends,so the husband and his room mate have nothing to get upset about.This couldn't be further from the truth.

My brother gets off work tomorrow around 6:00 p.m.Our house is only a 15 minute walk from where he works.To be honest,my brother cannot fight,he has no real experience,so the way I see it,I have only two choices: 1.Escort him home to protect him just in case the boys show up,or 2.Do nothing,and worry about him getting home with a swollen lip and eyes.

The problem is,that if I fight for him,I risk getting charged with assault.But he's my brother,and I would give my life for him.So what the Hell do I do?

Peace,
KAZ

In all honesty, if you think he is going to get jumped on his way home, you need to tell him and have him either take a different way home or get a ride. Or call the cops. I know that you care about your brother, but seriously man, fighting won't improve the situation at all. It will just make things worse, especially if you beat them. They will just become more bitter and hateful. I don't know how to solve this problem altogether, but if you want my advice, fighting would be foolish.

First off, it's her freakin fault for actually accepting the date invitation with your brother. If she's married, she should have said no.

Secondly, yeah you better watch your brother's back. Yet then again, there are ALOT of people who talk smack and don't do jack at ALL. So either they are bluffing or serious. Hard to say, but your brother needs to lay low for a bit.

Best for your bro to not be friends with her. leave her totally alone. She has tendencies to like your bro. He needs to stay away.

2 things in life you never mess with... Someone's woman (wife specifically), and someone's money... not particularly in that order.

Your brother probably said too much by now... but he should've left it at "I didn't know and I'm very sorry. It won't happen again." He is not a coward for apologizing... and he should do that. Your brother should walk off with a high note and TOTALLY break it off with that girl. Friends are not possible at this point in my opinion.

You should stay out of it. If you think someone is threatened... call the policy and let them handle it.

As for the future, these kind of topics should be left off the boards.

Thanks,
†B†V† :hat

SpartanEvolved said:

In all honesty, if you think he is going to get jumped on his way home, you need to tell him and have him either take a different way home or get a ride. Or call the cops. I know that you care about your brother, but seriously man, fighting won't improve the situation at all. It will just make things worse, especially if you beat them. They will just become more bitter and hateful. I don't know how to solve this problem altogether, but if you want my advice, fighting would be foolish.

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Tell him to get a ride home. No point leaving an opening for him to get jumped. If you get involved (in a physical altercation) it may just exacerbate things or escalate the conflict.

Yeah, that's basically what I was trying to say. Create more problems than it solves.

Dont do anything rash Kaz...you dont need to get involved physically
let your brother sort his own problems out

i would kill for my family too but they need to solve their own problems

Bluevoodu said:

Best for your bro to not be friends with her. leave her totally alone. She has tendencies to like your bro. He needs to stay away.

2 things in life you never mess with... Someone's woman (wife specifically), and someone's money... not particularly in that order.

Your brother probably said too much by now... but he should've left it at "I didn't know and I'm very sorry. It won't happen again." He is not a coward for apologizing... and he should do that. Your brother should walk off with a high note and TOTALLY break it off with that girl. Friends are not possible at this point in my opinion.

You should stay out of it. If you think someone is threatened... call the policy and let them handle it.

As for the future, these kind of topics should be left off the boards.

Thanks,
†B†V† :hat

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Will do. Thank you.

I think what's been already mentioned in this thread, is about all the advice you really need, Kaz.

What happens next can't be foretold, but I'd defiantly agree to getting your brother to take another method home. As Mega said, people talk smack and don't follow through.

As BV said in tie up to what Mega also said. She didn't say she was married. She could have her own little scheme's. Best your brother tries not to get involved... 'Course, it could be the total opposite. Some people are plain innocent, and others total idiots.

I hope for the best for you and your brother.

Thanks Guys.

I agree that you need get him a ride to and from work for awhile and you should definetly be contacting the police this whole we are going to stay friends garabage makes it more likely that they will try something. You also really need to get through to your brother that by not apologizing and breaking off all contact outside of work that he made this situation a whole lot worse I can't stress that enough.